I am 6 months!!
==> 6!! MONTHS!! <==
She will be here in 3 months!!
I know I sound like a broken record, but I can't believe how fast this pregnancy is going by. I was looking at our little ultrasound pics today - sweet little chubby cheeks, just like her sisters. I can't wait to hold her and kiss those little cheeks. ♥
On an unrelated note.
I enjoy being pregnant. I really do. I feel cute. Bulgy, but cute.
Pregnancy is the ONE TIME in my life that I actually DON'T feel self-conscious about my weight. I like the cute little belly and I like the cute little clothes. I *adore* the enormous ta-tas. :) I don't obsess over the number on the scale and I don't feel guilty about eating.
HOWEVER. I have noticed a disturbing trend. For some reason, it seems that people feel it is okay to say things to me (I assume because I am obviously pregnant) that NO ONE in their right mind would say to a woman who is NOT pregnant.
Comments like, "You must be due any day," and "Feeling big?" and my favorite, "ONLY 6 MONTHS?! Is it TWINS??" just roll off their tongues. Worse, it is WOMEN who are guilty of this!! Now come on ladies. Would you tell another non-pregnant woman at the grocery store she seems a bit hefty to you for her height?
Of course not. Can you imagine? "Wow, you are big for a woman who is only 5' 4"! You must feel miserable!"
***SMACK!!***
That's about how that conversation would go, no?
So, just an FYI ladies. No pregnant woman wants to be told she is huge - just like the *not* pregnant girl next to her in line who is carrying an extra 30 lbs - she knows. And there is a good chance she is NOT standing there thinking how much better she would feel about herself if someone would just acknowledge her plight.
The old adage is true - think of something NICE to say. Ask her if she is excited. Ask her if she knows the baby's gender. Tell her she looks cute. And if she retorts with a negative remark about her appearance, don't be fazed.
The last 3 women she stood next to in line probably asked if she was carrying twins.
Thanks for listening. I feel better. :) Once we get the crib put together I'll be putting up some before-and-after pics of the nursery and the girls' room, both of which have recently received a fresh coat of paint in super girly colors. Have a great weekend!
Thanks for listening. I feel better. :) Once we get the crib put together I'll be putting up some before-and-after pics of the nursery and the girls' room, both of which have recently received a fresh coat of paint in super girly colors. Have a great weekend!